12- Chums

"How does it feel to have a true friends?"

Friends, also known called as a companion, familiar, buddy, comrade or chum. But let me choose "chum" because it sounds so cute. Anyway, these are the people who are willing to help you at anytime you need, and they DON'T LEAVE YOU WHEN YOU'RE AT THE VERGE OF DANGER. They Fight for you, Respect you, Include you, Encourage you, Need you, Deserve you, and Stands for you.

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To be honest, not all of the people that I've talked and met are really my friends. Some are just acquaintances, some are just... you know...clingy or just taking advantage of me. We all do have these kinds of friends... friends that really ENDS. Friends that has an expiration date. Friends that doesn't really look you as a friend. We all have these kinds...

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Based on my experiences, having friends are really easy. You just talk to someone, amuse them, make your presence stronger then POOF! you're friends. But to find a real friend is pretty hard, because you have so many FRIENDS. But then according to a quote, your true friends will be revealed when you have encountered hard times. And it's very true and I'm shocked that it's not too many. It made me somehow, disappointed because those people who I thought are my real friends, are the ones who are really not. But despite of disappointment, I still appreciated my real friends, and I'm really glad that even though it's not that many, it's better than nothing.

I feel so amused, comfortable, happy and free when I'm with my chums. Having them, is pretty enough for me. I just want a person who could help me when I'm in a hard time, having fun with me, brave enough to introduce me as a friend, and the most important (for me)... I just want a person who will never forget me even if we don't see each other. Having to notice my presence will make me really happy. I know it's kinda shallow but it's really really important to me. Because I've experienced to be forgotten in so many times, and I've hated that. I'm sick of it.

It's more painful to be forgotten by a friend rather than breaking up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend, well that's my opinion though. The memories you've shared with your friends are much more different than the moment you could get to your partner.



I'm really grateful and thankful to God because He had given me a lots of wonderful and real friends in my life. And because of them and also my family of course, part of my life have been meaningful and colorful. They've given me hope and strength to move on. I cannot imagine my life without my friends, that's too drastic.

SIMPLY FRIENDS (credits to: Photoscape)